Slave and proud.For some of us it is a certainty that we had since adolescence, or even long before. The word slave is a word that speaks to us.
Others will only have discovered it later, through reading, filming, encounters.
We have in common this experience of the incommunicable.
In our world where everything is possible or almost, in the general indifference we can say almost everything... except that we are a slave.
I'm not talking here about those who "play" the slave, thinking that with a collar and a few slaps, for a scene of a few hours you are a slave, and then you resume your daily life.
No, I'm talking here about those who feel like a slave, who live as a slave, and who need a Master-slave relationship to flourish.
Nor will I go back to the traditional Alpha-omega scales to which we can always refer to situate ourselves.
No, being a slave is neither theories nor practices, it is above all a way of feeling and living certain relationships with others.
It is also common to see that slaves are often dominant people in civilian life. Should we be surprised? A slave who assumes his nature and the life of a slave, is necessarily someone who has a high level of requirement, a taste for surpassing himself, who also has personality and who must have learned to resist the judgment of others.
It is therefore not surprising that they have responsibilities, sometimes important in civilian life.
But behind all this, there remains one fundamental thing, we need to depend on our Master, to obey him, to serve him, to admire him.
He is the determining element, no matter how young, old, tall etc. he must dominate us, not with a whip, but in our own mind, he is our Master because we recognize him as such. And it doesn't matter in the end how he got this result.
But in the BDSM world of the networks we meet a lot of dominants who confuse training and breaking, dominating and despising. This is what we must beware of, at the risk of destroying ourselves.
Our Masters are most often attentive people, who are sometimes harsh and demanding, but they know what a real slave is worth, a slave who gives himself totally and who recognizes in himself his Master, rather than many submissives whose only concern is themselves and who enslave the dominant to their own desires.
In essence, the slave is inferior, he considers himself as such, he lives as such, and therefore has great difficulty in becoming aware of his own value.
This is why he must be careful during his meetings to be respected, to refuse those who despise him as a human and do not realize that they have the privilege of having a real slave ready to serve them.
A true Master will not refuse a slave who respects himself, who makes himself respected and who consequently will make respect the property of his Master.
We therefore do not have to be afraid of affirming ourselves as a slave, and we must be proud of it, and I also believe that it is by being thus, proud of ourselves, of being what we are, that we will make people want to a Master to become our owner.
I also believe that it is at this price, that we slaves can give the best of ourselves to our Masters.
Bastard 440.